There are families whose passion, drive and talent for a sport span a couple generations. The Mannings had Archie, Peyton, Eli and now Arch excelling in football. Motorsports celebrated victories with Mario, Michael, Jeff and now Marco. Dell Curry passed his basketball skills on to Stephen and Seth. Can you embrace your child’s sport if they choose to do something different or if you never participated in sports yourself?

It is amazing to play your chosen sport with your children. On the other hand, some children find a sport their parents have not tried, done well, or even enjoyed. These athletes may be less pressured to rise to their parent’s level of success. However, they may feel their alternative sport does not please their family.

Learn to Support Their Choice

How do you embrace your child’s sport if you do not enjoy playing or watching the sport? What if you feel their sport is too dangerous? Do you have concerns regarding the cost or commitment to the sport? Here are suggestions for accepting your child’s athletic direction and supporting them on their journey.

• Accept that your child enjoys their sport. Communicate with them to understand what they like about it. Does your child hope to become competitive, or do they simply enjoy the feeling they get when they play or practice? Are their friends on a team?
• Research the sport’s culture, cost and safety precautions. Do you feel comfortable with the team, coaches, and other athletes? Is your child’s participation economically feasible for your family? Is it safe or well-regulated for your athlete’s physical and mental well-being? Finding answers to your questions will allow you and your child make an informed decision regarding their future in the sport.
• If your child is very young, a conversation with their pediatrician may help you determine the best timing to begin a new activity.
• Ensure their safety to your best ability. Provide proper fitting equipment they’ll need to avoid injury.
• Speak to parents who have children in the sport. Learn of the praises or concerns for local teams, training facilities, or coaches.
• Watch your child as they participate. Are they truly having fun? Do they get along well with their peers? Is there a hint of natural ability? (Helpful but not necessary, of course) Is your child willing to put in the required work for success?
• Learn the rules of the sport and join them as they practice. This is a great opportunity to expand your knowledge of their sport. You will benefit from the extra exercise. You and your child will both benefit from quality time together.

New and Exciting

Your child may not become the starting pitcher on your favorite MLB team or an NHL goalie you imagined in your dreams. They may introduce you to the world of skateboarding, steeplechase, or BMX racing. Give them a chance to explore new activities. You may find you really enjoy watching them have fun and are able to embrace your child’s sport.